The Neverending Story
With someone (or someone) I have already spoken. Recently with two friends (ex-classmates), who will call and they Emme, it was decided to do a little thought for the degree of a third girl - here Gl. -. Typically See you all soon, especially for birthdays (to exchange gifts). But this is not important. The main issue is confidence. At school you were all well together, with the maturity has maintained a degree of confidence only with some, while with others there was a little lost sight of. This means that I, for these friends - especially for GI-falls under the more acquaintances than friends--. While I of other friends (in the presence, and then excluding those who can not reach because they are too far away) I do not. If I went one afternoon to go shopping with a friend, I wanted to spend a week or a summer with the girls, I could not do it. And this is the premise.
They asked us to buy an ornament for GI, but it just did not like to Emme. Ok, I say, we at least do something with this blessed gift. They deny that a graduation gift to be important, expensive, thus, can not be a pair of earrings or similar because otherwise we would spend a fortune. It seems to me absurd: we are not close relatives, are not the circle of close friends ... We cavern between friendship and mere knowledge and therefore would not remain puzzled GI if our gift was modest. If we add who already has everything, has not (to my knowledge) special economic problems and that some time ago for her care gave me a place that I went down (I'll say below) do not find the sense of spending too much . Especially since I'm doing lately on the whole economy. Gain on 700 €, will spend 200-odd rental, add bills, expenses, car insurance, gasoline, and who knows what else ... also had to spend 50 € for this girl I would change my life. Just do not find it fair. Why do not they spend those 50 € even for me to get a dress or a skirt. Why we will soon a new move and maybe I can at least buy some furniture that is truly mine and not second hand. And why, can not be denied, there is envy. I will not cry too much on him, but if my parents had had the economic means to GI, not sure the doctor ordered me to get a job, trying to navigate between this and the university (failing miserably) . However
: some time ago, came together for an evening. Someone suggested a pizza eating out (strange for us that we do not lock ourselves in the usual cafes to drink the usual cocktail). GI asked us 35 km to go do it in a pizza restaurant (which was near his house much less among other things) because there "with TOT € you can eat whatever you want." But I will spend twice as much in gas ... When I pointed this out a little annoyed I felt really disappointed and surprised, so much that I felt almost guilty for having "accused". But this is its nature, tends to save on everything (and more than once he has done stories about the birthday gifts that I proposed to the others of our group because it costs too much). Now I do ... and I think it makes sense.
fact is that this damn gift he's talked so much that I am exhausted.
ps. I have not written the route of Minorca ... xD wait to forget everything?
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